Everyone is right that has posted to you on this thread.
You have inadvertently stumbled into the 'distance game'. You are finally making some tangible emotional distance between you and your wife. It is what I was trying to get you to do a month ago.
Her comments to you are proof that she is noticing. The chased, becomes the chaser. She loses her power because what you once wanted, you have no interest in now, at least with her....
You still need to meet her needs, but when it comes to her meeting yours, then you have none - at least for a while, at least with her.
You treat her like a new coworker, nice, but distant. Make an honest effort to make her feel comfortable, but keep your distance, and make no demands. I am NOT talking doormat. Keep your normal boundaries.
In her heart, she probably wants to be a good wife to you, but her embrace (of a rather skewed subset) of feminism, is causing her no small amount of grief. She can't just dump her passion after all. Figure out a way to side step it. Only you and she can do this. You two are the only ones that understand where her head is in this. She has to realize what her primary conflict is and deal with it. You can NOT force this by demanding sex. She will have no part in that. You can NOT act like a doormat and let her do anything she wants.
Imagine yourself as the security guy at the school crossing. Don't engage in arguments or fights, BE THE OFFICIAL.
Let me know if you want further thoughts on this HD.
-NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
