I said "fine" because I didn't want to get "into it" with her, especially not over the phone. I really do feel like she wants a conflict to flare up...maybe it's just me being cynical, but it seems like in the past when she says something like what she said last night, she is baiting me. Then, when I say something like, "I am sad," she ends up saying that it's always all about me; or, I will never be happy until I'm okay with her saying, "NO"; or, I am putting too much pressure on her; or, the usual myriad of other arguments. They end up being fights, and then we are distant (more distant) from each other for a few days.
And I just don't feel like getting into that when I'm at work and she's on her way to work.
