Annette, not to rain on your parade, but you wrote
Quote: I have not actually forced H into making a decision about counseling or looking into his ED problem.
my bf has a bottle of Viagra (has had it for two years), AND we're going to an excellent C every week (going this morning) and still no sex. The thing that makes the sex happen is when we do what Jenny did, namely, force the issue. The counselor's role is to tell us that if we feel uncomfortable or get mad at each other, it's not the end of the world, and that we should go ahead and not wait until we feel comfortable. We have to stretch ourselves. (I haven't gotten there yet. )
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