I can see where you are coming from. Be it right or wrong, things were not always that way. Same thing here. Unfortunately our spouses changed, for whatever reason, and they are happy with the way their lives are. They expect us to be happy also, even though we have not changed, in the area of sex that is. I have not actually forced H into making a decision about counseling or looking into his ED problem. I know I have to do this if I want things to change. I keep questioning myself if I want to fight for this the rest of my life with H.
After looking at my statements I suppose I don't want it enough or I would do something about it wheather it be fight for it or leave. I wish I had some words of wisdom, but I don't so I will end with this ((((((((((((((((((HairDoggie))))))))))))))))))))))) Annette
