Genie2 I do not know your H's situation. I did not intend it to be a putdown. Also see you are saying Heavens, the guy has clothing galore!
I am down to about 4 pants that look good. Others are torn, worn out in the knees, paint, oil, ink, or something stained. So I look at things from where I am at now. Your H position is different than mine.
I buy clothing when something fits(6'4"). I can get things big, but have a difficult time finding "tall" clothing. I could go to a "BIG & TALL" store but dislike paying $40 for a pair of pants that cost $20 at a different store, same brand of pants but not tall or high waisted. I try to avoid the "plumbers butt" displays I experience with non-tall clothing. I do not look good in Britney Spears (bare middle) type of clothing.
Back to your H. Somehow you have to get him to see that if he became the (I think it is) Downy fabric softener "Snuggle Bunny", you would be warmer to his touches.
OG Lou Sometimes W's teddy bear, sometimes her grouchy bear. My problen is, I was told, bears like to snuggle, and they do not have roaming hands.
