As to laundry being neglected - it wasn't that he was out of clothes, or even nearly out... there were several complete sets of clothes. It's not his clothes that are stank, it's his body. He will put on clean clothes every day, but still not take a shower.
As for 2) He puts off getting the work done 'til the last minute. 3) A possiblilty. 4) I don't know abaout this one. 5) 1/2 hour on personal appearance _ when this happens, I will jump his bones! 6) Don't know about this one 7) Like I say, laundry not neglected, just not put away after being done. 8) 'Scuse me?????? He never is completely out of clothes. How could he be with over 30 shirts and more than a dozen pair of pants? I don't let that much laundry pile up. In fact, I used to do 13 loads of laundry each weekend when all the kids were at home.
H may let it go 3 weeks between doing his laundry, but I will do some of it each week if he hasn't gotten around to it.
Basically, he gained bad habits while in the military, and has taken them to extremes. He just doesn't pay attention to personal hygeine. It's pretty much always been a problem, but I don't remember why it was less of an issue back when.
