COgal worte: --------------- just found multiple CD's with webcam stuff, bj's, and some other really nasty stuff burned from MY computer, using blank CD's that I purchased. ---------------
So, take a nail file and put a few scratches across the recorded surface of each and put them back into their 'hiding place'. They are yours after all.
When he inquires as to their condition, be prepared to discuss it with him.
I don't believe in secrets, hiding places, or hidden things, in a marriage. Secrets are not good for a marriage, and when one spouse has a compelling need for secrecy, it is time to expose and seek help.
Your spouse is not likely to change while his 'secret' (usually a lie based on delusion) is ignored or 'swept under the rug'. Exposure with a subsequent attempt at repair of the issue is the way to go. Obviously, that won't be fun.
All the best, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
