Quote: He could probably have looked at this stuff online and erased his "footprint" without me noticing, but NO he has to burn CD's of it and name each of them. A CD named "Kimberly" is very suspicious.
I'd consider kicking him out of the house strictly on the basis of him being stupid.
Quote: What's funny is that I don't think he has enough interest in sex to even masturbate while watching the clips.
Don't fool yourself! Porn and MB go together like hand in glove (pun intended ). The fact is, porn is very stimulating, like a drug. It's a compulsion for him, which means you can't trust him to act rationally, although his behavior is extremely predictable. He is channeling all of his sexual energy into porn and MB, which is one of the main causes for him short changing you in the sack.
This is a stubborn problem that he will not change unless her really, really wants to. His desire to change in this area is a good barometer for how much he values your relationship. However, having the desire to change is not the same thing as having the ability to change. I don't know how you can gage his sincerity to change, though. Is he lying, i.e, is he telling you he will change when he really has no intention of changing? Or does he really want to change and he is just losing to his compulsion? Since he is a proven lier, I can't blame you for not trusting him. I wouldn't either.
SM
"If we will be quiet and ready enough, we shall find compensation in every disappointment." Henry David Thoreau
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). The fact is, porn is very stimulating, like a drug. It's a compulsion for him, which means you can't trust him to act rationally, although his behavior is extremely predictable. He is channeling all of his sexual energy into porn and MB, which is one of the main causes for him short changing you in the sack.