You may remember that he moved out for a month in the spring. I haven't paid a single payment for him since he's been back and will not do it again. Somehow he's managed to get the money for that AND hockey, of course. I'm still having difficulty getting him to contribute to household expenses though.
He knew my feelings about porn before he ever moved in with me. It's one of the reasons I ended my previous marriage of 16 years. I also told him that I wanted him to agree to 2 things before he moved in - no porn and no pictures of other women. He's violated both:( Unfortunately, I never realized that I'd have to tell a grown (ha!) man that he must help out financially.
He could probably have looked at this stuff online and erased his "footprint" without me noticing, but NO he has to burn CD's of it and name each of them. A CD named "Kimberly" is very suspicious. It also concerns me that I have a 16 year-old daughter who is considered "hot" (at least by my 14-year old son's icky friends).
I am 46 but easily look 10 years younger...except on days like today. I know I'm intelligent, just not in this for some reason.
Ok, what do I do with these CD's? Right now they're living in the bottom of my shredder (in one piece, no less!).
