I just found multiple CD's with webcam stuff, bj's, and some other really nasty stuff burned from MY computer, using blank CD's that I purchased. Before we married 2.5 years ago, I found a stash of printed pictures in our bedroom (lived together for a year before we got married). He insisted they were "old" even though the dates on the printouts were current. He promised never again.
This was one thing we've talked about in counseling and with 2 different counselors. I found a subscription notice for a webcam service in the e-mails; H swore that he didn't sign up for it. The dates on the CD's are consistent with the time period of that service.
He has no interest in me but is gung-ho for this stuff. I thought we were trying to work on our marriage. We have sex once a week (I can't even think of it as love making now) with him not wanting any foreplay or anything. I guess it's kind of like the once-a-week trash pickup to him...just something that has to be done. I just don't understand.
