I need to start asking H about Christmas arrangements, not to pressure him but so as to start making my own plans. I thought of emailing him to say that I would respond to his other emails separately, but then to ask about Christmas, fill him in on some D present concerns and other light stuff.
His email stirs up a lot of mud and I do't want to react too quickly to it. It may just settle down completely without my doing anything at all...
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"The unexamined life is not worth living" - Socrates