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Always being, and needing I might add, to be available can't be good for your own detachment. I asked a couple of weeks ago for you to find a way to step back and take time for YOU. Have you found any of that ME time yet?





Well, I am making this weekend my own. In fact after posting here I am not going to check this board until Monday evening, so as to be able to get on with all the stuff I have planned to do!

I will have a Christmas plan, as I know that by rights it is H's turn to have D over Christmas, but I will leave open the possibility that we can celebrate Christmas together. Last year H spent Christmas completely on his own.

I will let him know that he can spend a few days here after his op, if needed , without making a big deal of it.

Other than that, I am getting on with my life! Working on personal projects, inviting people over for dinner twice next week, working with my new student (she hardly speaks any English but has to pass an oral exam discussing politics in Januaray!! A challenge!!), and organising to be away for a weekend or two this December.

Look forward to hearing your update, Dazedboy!

Livnlearn

"The unexamined life is not worth living" - Socrates