The one word I would use to sum up H right now, is GRACELESS. There were some moments last weekend, where he really did seem without any grace.
He picked up a book of the Ten Commandments that D has. I bought it for her years ago. I was brought up Christian, but I am an atheist now. So is H. However, I do not think there is nothing of worth in the Bible, and I also happen to think that if D is growing up in a Christian (Western) culture, then she needs to be aware of the religious context and be familiar with well known Bible stories and teachings.
So anyway, H starts reading out the commandments to D in a mock portentious voice, asking D if she does any of these things. He asks her, do you honour your parents? Do you honour Mummy? She joins in on the joke, and says, NO! There you go, says H.
Hmmmmm.
Livnlearn
"The unexamined life is not worth living" - Socrates