Having tired of umbrella drinks and in need of new adventures and stronger libations, I decided to check in on the landlubbers. Bleary eyed I have read your last few months postings and fortunately, I have a large 2x4 at the ready - Whack, whack, whack!
My dear woman! Please join me by stepping out from this passive/aggressive dynamic. Take a day and review your posts. You need a few 'you only' days. You are blessed with great advice from Ellie, Betsey and slowly to name a few. I'd hate to put you in the brig for not listening to them.