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AND, Ellie's advice about going out while he's there is brilliant. Just leave him. If he's going to treat you like a hotel, then act like a hotel. Here's the key, see you later



I had H in my home looking after D for some days earlier this year when I was away visiting my family in another country. He had OW 2 to stay a couple of nights. I cannot let that happen again, I felt so disrespected. H never apologised for it when I told him I knew, but defended her.

I also changed the lock on the front door some months ago, I don't want to hand him my front door keys again while I am not there. I needed to draw the line about my private space. I personally think that if someone is staying in my house, then they socialise with me, not with others.

Livnlearn

"The unexamined life is not worth living" - Socrates