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Re: "I'm your ex-husband"
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11/12/04
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Hello again
My friends have gone, it is good to have to entertain and have company - it sure takes your mind off thinking about the usual stuff.
Anyhow, just thinking, I am sure H really does think what he does, FOR NOW! But let me just plot his thinking graph -
Arpil last year, tells me he doesn't love me any more, has not loved me the last two years. There is no one else.
In May he is tellng my good friend in other country that he is in love with OW 1 and has been for two years.
In October he has been dumped by OW 1 and tells our D that he loves her ( OW 1) not me.
Tells me at Christmas he loves me but getting back together is out of the question, it would never work.
February this year he is in country of OW 2 and with her.
Later that month she comes over here to this country.
By the end of February, they have split up.
By the start of May he is back in touch with OW 1.
After some weeks that is finished.
Tells me that while I was away in the summer - July and August, things changed for him. He is with OW 2 and D likes her, so there.
Start of October, OW 2 walks out on him.
Mid November, tells me that he wants me to be "clear"??
He is the one making contact and coming to stay, not me.
I don't know how much "in love" he was with OW 2.
He is not likely to change his position in a hurry, even if he wanted to, as he has talked himself into a corner.
Who knows what is around the corner??
Livnlearn
"The unexamined life is not worth living" - Socrates
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