H rings, says about this weekend, his landlord is only going up for the day on Saturday, so I said, what do you propose? He says, how about if D comes up for the day and plays in the snow, then we both come down together Saturday evening, I will stay at your place till Monday morning, when I have some work to do in town. I say, that's fine.
H says, are you sure?
I joke, no, wait a minute, I'll think about it! No, I'm only kidding!
H says, no really are you sure, because I know that you must find it very difficult having me around.
I say, and why would that be?
And H says, well, I am your ex-husband after all.
I started to say, well, you're not technically my ex-husband yet, (we are only legally separated) but then things got a little awkward, so I just said, whatever, you're welcome to come down and stay.
Is there a reason that H is making a big deal of things? Is he fishing to see how I feel? Is he so totally over me that he wants to make it plain that he will have nothing to do with me as a H ever again?
What do I say to him when he says I'm your ex-husband?
Thoughts?
Livnlearn
PS Just thought of something. Maybe I should just go along with his stuff, yes, you are my ex-husband, accept that that is how he sees us. We can still go forward from there!
"The unexamined life is not worth living" - Socrates
