is just getting off (LDW)acceptable?

[SolidMechanic]

So am i being over sensitive?? Sometimes it feels almost degrading...

How rude! How insensitive! In all of my nineteen years of marriage, my wife has never degraded me in such a fasion. Oh, how I wish she would.

I must stop reading this bored. I am having difficulty maintaining empathy for people who are complaining about the quality of the sex that they are getting. I guess this is my hang-up, since I get nothing at all. I shouldn't diparage your greivance by pointing out that some of us would gladly trade situations with you. It's just not constructive, and I apologize for my attitude.

Your wife got horny and ripped one off. You, apparently, got your rocks off too. So it wasn't great, but it wasn't bad, really. Tell your wife how great it was, how hot she is, and how much you are looking forward to the next sexy outing. I would not allow one iota of negativity to creep in. You might end up killing what little desire there is. There is an ember. Blow on it. Don't spit on it.

I'm going to look for a web bored for people who never have sex.

SM