"Light his fire" is by Ellen Kreidman. IIRC, it wasn't a mind blowing book but it did have a few good tips. For me, the best book for showing h love (aside from DB!) was "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus". It taught me how to show him love but also how to stop tearing him apart. I also appreciated "The Five Love Languages" particularly as it made me think about what made h calm, happy, more giving, etc.
Sage
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.
