Hi - don't know if I'll get any reply here since this thread is old- but someone suggested on my post that I look to experienced DBer's for advice. I will try to link to my thread.
In a nutshell- I feel I have tried a lot of DBing techniques and at times very little things seemed to improve, but H is very passive- If you look at my sitch I found a disturbing note and confronted H - anti DB -but we did have a good conversation where no one freaked out or walked out- H admitted that he had feelings for OW says no PA -but both think about never said -but it is there. I asked if he could cut off contact- He said he wasn't sure. I told him I know it will be hard , but he can still talk to me about it- Then I found out just how much he's been talking to here and I told him simply he needed to leave- See my sitch for details- I feel it was the only way- He needs to be away from me and I need to be way from him. Now how do we start to talk- Here are a few more details- I guess I'll add them to my original post in newcomers- Sage- your sitch reminds me so much of my own - I would love to hear some advice or thoughts on what is going on- Or from anyone else with experience in this area.
