Wanted to post one other thing...as a reminder to myself.
h told me last night (he's said this before) that he loves getting e-mails from me. I often send him "welcome to school" ones. Anyway, it was good to hear because quite frankly, I have been feeling a bit discouraged this past week because he wasn't responding to many of them. Or so it seemed. Anyway, it's a good reminder that sending the emails doesn't make me feel good if I'm wrapping them up in a bunch of expecations of how he "should" respond.
Sage
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.