Looking backward...but only to move forward

[sage]

Just a reminder to myself since I'm feeling grumpy and might forget it..

had a great phone conversation with h. he was in the middle of taking the door off of a small fridge that we're putting out for pickup. I had reminded him about doing it last night but not this AM and I love that he remembered and took charge of getting it done! He also just called me and told me that he had called our cleaning service back (they had left a message) and taken care of the whole thing. This is AWESOME! A total departure from how things "used to be".

Also, h was very kind and loving and asked me if I was ok. I told him I wasn't -- that I was feeling very depressed about still being sick. he didn't recoil from that...was very positive (but validating!).

told me he loved me a couple of times, too.

Sage