Looking backward...but only to move forward

[Wonka]

Sage,

Thanks for your insights.

Ellie,

I think you said it best...not giving the "playbook" to the opposing team. That made a lot of sense.

Eyesopened,

You really put the fear in me by your comment that my W might use DR with the OP!!! No way, Jose!!! I want DB to work with my W not help her with the OP.

Follow-up question:

When I get my W back...should I get her the 5LL and the Relationship Cure by Gottman? I hear your comments about the KLA tapes.

Again, thanks a bunch for your guidance.