I agree with Sage - the tapes are better suited to use by the WAS. My H knows about the book, but I would nEVER give it to him to read, even now! Somebody here once said - "why would you give the other team your playbook?" - and that's kind of how I look at it - why would I want H to know all my strategies, when you never know (god forbid!!!) when you might need them again? I think the only time I would give my H DR to read is if I started having an affair! LOL!
BUT - my H DID read the Five Love Languages and that was very helpful.
