Thanks for resurrecting your old thread. It has given me a lot of hope and also shown me that some of the difficulties that I am having lately are more than likely normal reactions.
One thing in particular struck me, when you were at a restaurant and asked for carry out and your H became angry and the first thing that popped into your mind is you had an A and you are mad at me over ordering carry out. This kind of thing has popped into my head so many times it was starting to worry me. I don't know how many times I have thought "you had a one night stand and you have the gall to be mad at me for not taking out the garbage". I've never said it out loud but it is always there. I think I have some anger issues to overcome. Your thread was insightful and very helpful (as always ).
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