Thanks for finally letting me know that ;-) That leads me to a question....has your W had a complete physical where she discussed her lack of libido with her Dr.? The reason I ask is that there could be changes that have occurred in her (just as there are in men) where medication may help.
My Mom a& I are very close friends...she experienced this EXACT phenomenom...she is now on medication (sorry don't remember which one) and it really has helped. Now this may not be the problem at all...if it's not then there's something deeper going on with her.
& Believe me...I know how feeling sexual affects how you behave...I've been on both ends of the spectrum as far as that goes and am currently trying to help my LDH recover his sense of sexuality which has been horribly squashed over the years.