Quote: "Desire" determines everything about a persons personality.....When I think of "desire", i apply it to everything the LD spouse does 24/7. I literally see it as a complete personality change.
Whoa! That pretty much stopped me in my tracks CeMar. Correct me if I'm misinterpreting this ok? Are you expecting your wife to incorporate your definition of desire into everything she does on a daily basis...and as result modify her entire personality to suit your needs?
Please do tell me if I read that wrong, because if that's what you're hoping/expecting you may be fighting a losing battle. Think about it...would it be easy for you to modify your personality? I know it wouldn't be for me...my personality is who I am.
I still haven't heard you say what changes you're making, but you expect her to make some pretty damn big ones.
