i didn't realize my wife had a twin! except a lot of times she is not willing and doesn't see what the problem is. she has not read anything nor has any desire to. oh the discussions are lively all right! but not as constructive. She simply feels that her position is right.
she cancelled the B & B we sort of agreed upon in the fall, she going to take a week off in dec. to do christmas stuff. I'm thinnking about telling her i'm going to rent a place at the ocean for a day or two to just relax and that she shouldn't feel obligated to go. I'm going to take the same week off to help with christmas stuff but I AM NOT working my tail off the whole week. I'll take some books, booze, and my guitar and just chill out..
