Understand that the grass is always greener. . . . You said
Quote: What would I want? To have a level of passion and desire as part of our sex life, to have this be part of our relationship, and to feel like we are both having fun while pleasuring each other.
At this point, I would settle for merely having a "sex life." Maybe after having that for a while, I might want to fine tune the desire, passion, fun settings a bit. It's been since early August for me...which was the second time in 2004 we had made love. I'm about ready to chew my leg off.