not sure what the first line means. i'm not very good at using this online forum yet. maybe i accidentally posted in the wrong spot or clicked on the wrong button.
as to the rest of your response, it sounds like about 95% to mine.
i have a question though. what if the LD spouse is simply unable to respond emotionally to our reguest?? In my case, there is still enough there for me to hang around and try something else or evaluate my viewpoint.
