Something just dawned on me...I wonder if some of the LD (not all by any means) know what "desire" or "want" means...literally.
I was just thinking about a convo my LDH and I had very recently where I told him he never has to wonder if I "want" him...he looked at me kind of confused...so I explained that I'm always the one to initiate sex, so he always knows I find him physically attractive. He never does that with me...so how am I supposed to know that he "wants" or "desires" me? That rung a bell with him...saying "desire" or "want" to him was like speaking another language.
Breaking it down the way I did to him seemed to make things a bit clearer...I don't know that it will make any permanent difference, but it did seem to hit a light switch at the time.
