Quote: I would love to be able to go see a C , however right now financially we just DO NOT have the money to do that.
If it isn't too personal, may I ask where you are. Has your H separated from the AF yet? You may be able to get a low-cost/free C through the AF. I also know a very good one in my area who adjusts his fees to your sitch. There are times when he doesn't charge at all.