You are sooo Right. I'm thinking our current backslide is kind of my own doing. Seems as reluctant I've been to make the first move lately, I've been at least as quick to turn anything neutral into a negative. I becoming aware that I've done it, but for the life of me I can't figure out WHY. Guess like you say, it is a way getting a quick resolution rather than having it hang. I think some of it is a sense of feeling justified too, as awful as that is. Gotta get back on the positive bandwagon. Hoping the time alone togther at the WWME weekend coming up will help.