Do you realize you used the word "pushed" twice? I think her issue was that she didn't want to take testosterone. Was this a reasonable request on her part? After all the doctor said her levels are "normal", whatever that means. And side effects can be unpleasant.
I know that we would prefer that desire problems are medical, because then their is a potential quick fix. But if the problems are relational, well there is no quick fix. In fact, there is no guaranteed fix at all. And the fact that you "pushed" her on this probably worsened your relationship issues.
SM
"If we will be quiet and ready enough, we shall find compensation in every disappointment." Henry David Thoreau
