I hear ya, SoCal. Whenever I have the "talk" with my W, she reminds me how much she gives and gives and how I need to stop pressuring her. Adding insult to injury, she usually says that she was so close to feeling comfortable with me, but that I just set us back a few weeks with my pressure.
On the plus side, she met with a doctor a week or so ago about getting a complete physical, and (reports to me at least) that she mentioned among her concerns her low sex drive. So he took a few blood samples and is going to tell her, no doubt, that she is completely normal.
