Quote: At what point is it to much to ask for her to make more of an effort for me even if she doesn’t understand why.
I think that's what many of us are battling with...when do we put our foot down? It's a tough thing to deal with, and a very tough question to answer. In many ways that's a double-edged sword, you'd really have to be careful how you approach your W on this. You certainly don't want to tear down her confidence in the bedroom...but by the same token if you don't eventually approach her about it...you won't get what you want.
