I understand what you're going through...I'm currently going through that myself. Why can't my LDH simply do "xyz" because I'm told him that's what I need? I'm really clinging onto those "little improvements" of his that I see.
Without spinning back to other threads, to many of us (me included) this is the crux of things. In my relationship we do ML, at a frequency that is lower than I would prefer but would be ok if the quality was better.
I think I have impressed on my W that I am not happy with the situation, she does seem to enjoy sex and usually has an O. At what point is it to much to ask for her to make more of an effort for me even if she doesn’t understand why. Shouldn’t she be willing or wanting to ask or listen to X,Y,Z and make an effort?
