I understand what you're going through...I'm currently going through that myself. Why can't my LDH simply do "xyz" because I'm told him that's what I need? I'm really clinging onto those "little improvements" of his that I see...so right now I'm actually trying to take my own advice LOL.
Just had a brief convo with the hubby during lunch...he actually mentioned something about a quickie at least tonight. That certainly perked my ears up...we've both been EXHAUSTED lately...been dealing with some heavy family issues on my side. Rationally I know he may be trying to simply meet my "needs" and keep an emotional distance from me (with the quickie)...however the other side of me also sees it as, hey! He's at least verbally recognized to me that this is something I need. I probably try to read far too much into too many things LOL.
