Also, as GEL has reminded me before, I need to keep in mind that his form of desire is very very subtle and I shouldn't expect it to look a certain way. However it's packaged, I need to be aware of what it is that he's giving me and be grateful for it.
my question is should we be grateful for it if, even in the right direction, isn't egnough. At what point are we grateful for a compromise that isn't fulfilling to one person in the relationship?
Sorry to bring you all down, but this one is cutting too close to home for me...
