Great post, HP. I especially liked the update on the baby. They DO look like aliens when they show up, don't they? Anyway, I wanted to comment on the weird arousal/desire thing you mentioned. You were both naked, he was erect, spooning, and...nothing?! I know of no other man . . . or indeed, any male creature, who would be in a situation like that and not "go for it." He is an odd bird.

I have a hearing in Des Moines on Thursday and Friday, so will be off-list for a while. Hope your life continues to go well.

Hairdog