HD... I kinda wanted the beautiful euphemism award, but I didn''t mean it that way. I meant that I don't do things that would rev me up sexually( like the wine/bath combo) because if I get myself "ready" and he doesn't follow thru, then I feel extra sucky, no pun intended.

Anyway...yeah HP, I think you try to analyze it all to make sense out of it...now I just analyze and realize none of it makes any sense.

IHJ