One of the things you posted about your H doesn't make sense to me. You say that his Testosterone levels are "fine". (I think you mentioned once before that he tested at a "high" level.)
Unless T affects men in different ways, it seems to me that his desire for you/sex is as often as his T level builds. My T level is high and I can't NOT think about schelpping my W, at work, at the grocery store, driving in the car...well, you get the idea.
I'm very much aware of the difference in my HD desire for sex and my T level craving for it. If not for my HD, I'd be docile on days that my T level had been depleted. But in my case, I'm lucky enough to want sex whether my body is screaming for it or not.
I understand that Mr. HP is LD and therefore doesn't think about sex "normally". That's the equivalent of it not coming naturally to him to give you the kind of compliments that you need to hear. But T is nature's "sexual pursuit potion" for a man (and a woman, too, according to the latest research). THAT'S what seems to be dripping too slowly in Mr. HP.
I've learned that I'm unable to relate to a LDM's thinking or behavior. But, it seems like a good thing to do to go for that second opinion. Maybe there is a large range of T levels for "normal" and he's on the lower end of the range. Grinding up a T pill and putting it on his cereal might wake up King Kong.
Just a thought...but wouldn't it be nice to know that you had to find that blonde wig and prepare to be thrown over his shoulder and carried to the top of the Empire State building every night?
