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So, today, I simply don't know what to make of a man who has not had sex with his wife in over a month..who does not mbate..and who had a nice lookin hardon and his wife stroking him and STILL says Yo I need a raincheck.


Is this a throwback to the seminary days when you got points with God for self-control in the face of temptation? Does he still feel that not giving in to desire, even when it would be legitimate, is being strong and good, and that giving in is weakness?