I'm not an OBGYN, nor do I play one on TV. HOwever, what's to get infected if there was no trauma? HP previously said she had no tearing or episiotomy to contend with. It would seem to me that she just needs wait long enough for everything so more or less go back together and stop being sore. Of course that's up to her doc and to her, but I didn't see what would be a show stopper, which is why I asked HP if she was going to ask her doc about it last week.
HP, like I said last week, call him, the worst he could do is say no, which is where you are right now anyway. Not sure it's going to matter since you said earlier on today that you were NOT going to initiate for the first postpartum romp, and you've brought up the fact that H isn't too inclined to initiate. It would be good to have the Doc's blessing so that it is available should H decide to move on it though.
