Lil, He tells me about it as we are having sex. He cannot show desire unless we are having sex. Then he tells me about what was going through his head earlier, if anything, and it DOES drive me nutz. Cause I think "well how much more fun it could have been if I had known he was thinking that.."
His thinking goes like this: If I can't have sex at this very moment, then what is the point of saying or doing anything sexy. Why would anyone do that? What is the point?
As you said yesterday some people are epicureans and others are simpletons.
Ha ha ha ha. See there, I just wanted an excuse to call my husband a simpleton. Seriously, he does have a simple streak in him. Dislikes fanciness for the sake of fanciness. It used to drive him crazy when the Marine Corps would put them up in fancy hotels with mints on the pillow, etc, cause after all they WERE marines and he is just not like that.
