Snarch kind of spoiled the just grab it for me a little where he says it is sad that so many couples initiate sex by starting with genital contact, and that they are missing out on so much opportunity for connection. I knew it subconsciously, but he brought it out to the front.
W and I have talked a little about foreplay, but she doesn't really see what the big deal is. She also laughs about eye's open kissing and orgasms, feels funny about it and doesn't really want to do it. Not to mention the best LM we've had was one Saturday morning where I insisted we look into each others eyes while doing it.
I think you may have something there with what is comfortable to the LD spouse guiding their actions. I think W only starts with wht she feels comfortable doing and knowing will work because it is what works on her. Thanks HP, I think we've stumbled onto something here together, it is enlightening to me as well.
--GGB, really really looking forward to the Marriage Encounter Weekend coming up in 2 weeks, and wondering why MrsGGB is so apprehensive.
