Handing Honey a cyber cup of hot cocoa ( spiked of course).
Those "lose it" days can be such a drag. Sometimes something good comes from them, like the release of frustration and tension or highlighting for ourselves ( and forour spouses) how important an issue is for us. It's also a signal to detach from it all and do something just for yourself.
Honey, you are having a lot of anxiety over what will be based on past experiences. While the past may often be a predictor of the future, often times it's not ( yup, I do think Boston is going to win this one, sorry!). You are working on creating a new reality with your H, and although no one can say when or in what way the changes will come, there will be changes because you have changed. Take the focus off of what will be and get back to taking things day by day. We are all here to support one another and remind ourselves that we are not alone in wanting more fulfillment with our spouses. I hope you have a better day today.
