Welcome to the board! I'm glad that you found us. There's a great group of people here to help you through this.
It sounds like your H is ready and willing to work things out between the two of you. If this is true, than you are off to a fantastic start!
However, I know that it's really, really, really, tough to just move beyond what has happened, and for you to just "forgive and forget". "Getting past this" usually involves a lot of just moving forward, and working on making a brand new relationship together.
You mentioned that if you had read the SSM book years ago, things would be different. Now that you HAVE read it, what can you start doing different? What would you have changed, and what small changes could you start to do now? What were you doing when things wre going great with you and your H?
Again, welcome!! Keep posting, and make friends with the great people who are here!
JJ
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