My H had an A. It was over for 1 year before I found out (OW called me). It has been 3 months since I found out and I am still feeling totally devistated by the betrayal. My H seems to think I should be able to move ahead (he says he wants things to WO and he loves me...) but I am still haunted by the A. I don't know if I will ever get past this. Divorce and Infidelity are 2 things I did not count on. He says that I was not attentive to his needs (and he is right). I just need to know I can trust him and his affection is real. I have done alot of reading, and if I had read the Sex-Starved Marraige years ago, things would have been different. How do I get past this?
