Quote: I do envy Ellie tho, NG is more like your guy, I'd be lucky to get one call a day, ugh. Though NG likes it when I call. Strange. I only say this because relationships seem to come in all shapes,
Slowly - I think some of it has to do with the introvert/extrovert thing. Extroverts recharge by being around people and find it draining to be alone; introverts find it draining to be with people and recharge by being alone. When my extrovert H travels, he needs to connect with me. When my introvert self is occupied, it doesn't cross my mind to call him - although I am happy when he calls me. One of the things I've had to learn is to break that pattern and start calling and emailing him during the day (before I didn't want to "bother" him - but guess what? HE likes it.)
So who are you - introvert or extrovert? And who is your spouse?
